
Leaving
his Marks on DePhillips Athletic Club
By Mitch Abramson
06/23/2005
Not long ago, Harold Marks was ripped from the playing fields by
breast cancer. The disease ravaged his body and forced him to a
hospital bed. He lost over 30 pounds, but he never lost his passion
for the DePhillips Athletic League. Resting in his cot, Marks performed
his duties as athletic director as if he was sitting in his living
room, offering advice to ease the burden of his hospitalization.
After 20 years of never taking a day off, Marks is retiring from
DAC this week and moving with his wife down to Florida. He has two
sisters and a son who live in the Boca Raton area.
His final task is to supervise a baseball playoff game Saturday,
and the final out will mark the end of an era. Marks sacrificed
most of his life to make sure kids in Bayside and Whitestone had
a place to play.
"It will probably take three people to do his job," said
DAC president Tom Hubany. "That's how much effort Harold put
into it. Guys like Harold come around once maybe twice in a lifetime.
You don't replace someone like him. You just try and make do."
Marks, 74, retired from his job as a print manufacturer 12 years
ago and he took his role as the volunteer athletic director seriously.
He reckons he probably attended four or five games a week and over
the course of his tenure, maybe more than 1,000 athletic contests.
DAC is a year-round league with seasons in basketball, baseball,
softball and flag-football for kids ages five to high school, and
he watched a lot of games.
That was the easy part.
Marks occupied most of his time doing the league's grunt work.
He ordered the uniforms, applied for the field permits, made schedules
for the umpires and referees, ordered trophies, and spoke to principals
about using their gyms for games - all in his straightforward, succinct
manner. Marks, who has a son and daughter, never minced his words.
When he had a message to give, he gave it bluntly.
"Harold had a way of talking," Hubany said. "I remember
when I was thinking of getting involved with DAC years ago. I came
to a couple of meetings and then I missed a couple, and I remember
getting a phone call from Harold, saying, 'I know you have missed
some meetings. Are you going to be a part of this thing or not?'
And I thought, 'yeah, I want to be a part of this.'"
Maybe it was preordained that Marks would spend his life around
sports. He grew up in an East Bronx building that was owned by the
former New York Knick Ritchie Garren. Actor Danny Aiello lived in
the apartment next to him and the two played stickball in the neighborhood
streets. Marks was known as a three-sewer man for his ability to
hit the ball past three sewers, the way kids measured distance back
then.
"I could really hit that ball," said Marks, who moved
to Bayside 37 years ago.
His father worked as a baker on the Lower East Side and his mother
was a homemaker. Both parents were immigrants from Poland. Over
a game of paddle-ball with former Cardozo basketball coach Al Matican,
Marks learned about DAC.
He enrolled his son Michael with the league in 1972 and in the late
'70s Marks became its first vice president. Then in 1982, when the
position was vacated, Marks took over as athletic director, quickly
emerging as the league's stern voice of reason whenever parents
or coaches grew exasperated during the highs and lows of a game.
"There were times when things got so crazy between the parents
you thought, 'the heck with it,'" he said. "There were
times when I thought about walking away, but you try and find a
happy medium whatever you do. I was yelling and screaming too, but
you take a step back and realize that you're here for the kids,
and you learn to take it easy. DAC was never a job to me. It was
pleasure."
In his 33 years of service, he has seen coaches come and go. Ronny
Seltzer, who founded the Bayside Yankees, once managed in the league.
So did current Bayside Yankee coach Joe Kessler, who was a basketball
coach.
Marks and his wife of 48 years, Rochelle, will leave for Florida
next Wednesday. Marks had open-heart surgery seven years ago and
was hospitalized with breast cancer two years ago. He still receives
treatment in the form of a shot once a week. Rochelle has mixed
emotions about the move. On one hand, she feels guilty about pulling
Marks away from DAC, but on the other, she is getting her husband
back.
"I feel like I'm taking his fire truck away by leaving DAC,"
she said. "It's something he's devoted so much energy and time
in. He loves sports. I'm very understanding. I'd rather have a happy
husband than someone who is bored. Is it a little excessive? Well,
you have to know the man. He's a very passionate and devoted person."
50 Years of DAC History
Tony De Phillips was a standout basketball and baseball player at
Newtown High School and at Fordham University. He played minor league
baseball for the New York Yankees and played in the Major Leagues
with the Cincinnati Reds. Tony also officiated college and NBA basketball
games and was a scout for the Philadelphia A's and the New York
Yankees.
On November 11, 1949 Tony opened a sporting goods store on Francis
Lewis Blvd in Bayside. The grand opening was attended by sports
greats of the times which included Phil Rizzuto of the Yankees,
Gene Hermanski of the Dodgers, and Jake LaMotta the middleweight
boxing champ.
In the spring of 1950 Tony started a youth baseball league in
the neighborhood with 150 kids. By 1954 600 youngsters were participating
and by 1958 Tony's youth club had 1200 members.
Initially a baseball club, other sports were added that included
basketball, football, bowling, handball, roller hockey and archery.
The initial ages of the participants were 10-14 with 15-16 year
old division being added in 1952 and a 9-year-old group in 1953.Varsity
baseball and basketball travel teams were also added, and players
from those teams went on to participate in high school and college
teams and receive major league tryouts.
DAC was involved in several outside travel leagues which included
the New York Met Basketball Alliance, NY Met Sandlot, Queens Junior
Baseball Alliance and Smithtown and Brentwood Tournaments.
In its early years, DAC had a Women's auxiliary for fund raising
activities which included bazaars, lawn parties, holiday dances
and bingo. A club newsletter was published monthly. Each year an
awards dinner was held with over 1000 people attending the one in
1958. Guest speakers at the dinner included Thurman Munson in his
MVP year, Lou Pinella, Ron Darling, and several prominent politicians.
An advisor to the club in its early years was John Golden, a noted
playwright, and theatrical producer, who allowed games to be played
on his 20 acre estate which is now part of Crocheron Park. Sammy
Spear the orchestra leader for Jackie Gleason was a manager in the
baseball program and Jackie Gleason was a sponsor.
Today DAC has over 650 kids in its Basketball programs for children
Ages 5-18. The program has not only expanded in size but now offers
travel teams and a separate girls program. The baseball program
although down from record high in the 1950 still has over 200 participants.
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