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Leaving his Marks on
DePhillips Athletic Club
By Mitch Abramson
06/23/2005
Not long ago, Harold Marks was
ripped from the playing fields by breast cancer. The disease
ravaged his body and forced him to a hospital bed. He lost over
30 pounds, but he never lost his passion for the DePhillips
Athletic League. Resting in his cot, Marks performed his duties
as athletic director as if he was sitting in his living room,
offering advice to ease the burden of his hospitalization.
After 20 years of never taking a day off, Marks is retiring from
DAC this week and moving with his wife down to Florida. He has
two sisters and a son who live in the Boca Raton area.
His final task is to supervise a baseball playoff game Saturday,
and the final out will mark the end of an era. Marks sacrificed
most of his life to make sure kids in Bayside and Whitestone had
a place to play.
"It will probably take three people to do his job,"
said DAC president Tom Hubany. "That's how much effort
Harold put into it. Guys like Harold come around once maybe twice
in a lifetime. You don't replace someone like him. You just try
and make do."
Marks, 74, retired from his job
as a print manufacturer 12 years ago and he took his role as the
volunteer athletic director seriously. He reckons he probably
attended four or five games a week and over the course of his
tenure, maybe more than 1,000 athletic contests. DAC is a
year-round league with seasons in basketball, baseball, softball
and flag-football for kids ages five to high school, and he
watched a lot of games.
That was the easy part.
Marks occupied most of his time doing the league's grunt work. He
ordered the uniforms, applied for the field permits, made
schedules for the umpires and referees, ordered trophies, and
spoke to principals about using their gyms for games - all in his
straightforward, succinct manner. Marks, who has a son and
daughter, never minced his words. When he had a message to give,
he gave it bluntly.
"Harold had a way of talking," Hubany said. "I
remember when I was thinking of getting involved with DAC years
ago. I came to a couple of meetings and then I missed a couple,
and I remember getting a phone call from Harold, saying, 'I know
you have missed some meetings. Are you going to be a part of this
thing or not?' And I thought, 'yeah, I want to be a part of
this.'"
Maybe it was preordained that Marks would spend his life around
sports. He grew up in an East Bronx building that was owned by
the former New York Knick Ritchie Garren. Actor Danny Aiello
lived in the apartment next to him and the two played stickball
in the neighborhood streets. Marks was known as a three-sewer man
for his ability to hit the ball past three sewers, the way kids
measured distance back then.
"I could really hit that ball," said Marks, who moved
to Bayside 37 years ago.
His father worked as a baker on the Lower East Side and his
mother was a homemaker. Both parents were immigrants from Poland.
Over a game of paddle-ball with former Cardozo basketball coach
Al Matican, Marks learned about DAC.
He enrolled his son Michael with the league in 1972 and in the
late '70s Marks became its first vice president. Then in 1982,
when the position was vacated, Marks took over as athletic
director, quickly emerging as the league's stern voice of reason
whenever parents or coaches grew exasperated during the highs and
lows of a game.
"There were times when things got so crazy between the
parents you thought, 'the heck with it,'" he said.
"There were times when I thought about walking away, but you
try and find a happy medium whatever you do. I was yelling and
screaming too, but you take a step back and realize that you're
here for the kids, and you learn to take it easy. DAC was never a
job to me. It was pleasure."
In his 33 years of service, he has seen coaches come and go.
Ronny Seltzer, who founded the Bayside Yankees, once managed in
the league. So did current Bayside Yankee coach Joe Kessler, who
was a basketball coach.
Marks and his wife of 48 years, Rochelle, will leave for Florida
next Wednesday. Marks had open-heart surgery seven years ago and
was hospitalized with breast cancer two years ago. He still
receives treatment in the form of a shot once a week. Rochelle
has mixed emotions about the move. On one hand, she feels guilty
about pulling Marks away from DAC, but on the other, she is
getting her husband back.
"I feel like I'm taking his fire truck away by leaving
DAC," she said. "It's something he's devoted so much
energy and time in. He loves sports. I'm very understanding. I'd
rather have a happy husband than someone who is bored. Is it a
little excessive? Well, you have to know the man. He's a very
passionate and devoted person."
Reach reporter Mitch Abramson by E-mail at TimesLedger@aol.com or
call 718-229-0300 Ext. 130.
DAC Field Day a huge
success
09/18/2003
The weather was fabulous 80 and not a cloud in the sky.
The DAC Annual Field Day was held at the renovated Bayside High
School Athletic Field, and the Outback Steakhouse was serving
steak, chicken and burgers. What more could you ask for to have a
great 2003 Field Day for DAC? The magnificent, new artificial
turf field was put to use early with flag football games from 9
a.m. to 2 p.m. for ages 7 to 16. A three-on-three basketball
tournament also was ongoing most of the day in all age groups.
DAC started its fall basketball registration, which will continue
every Friday night at the Clubhouse until Oct. 31. For further
information, call 718-746-6469.
About 400 children and parents enjoyed the great day. T-shirts
were given to basketball registrants, and Paul Nel and his great
outback team kept the grill going all day. Special thanks for all
the hard work of our volunteers Andrea Evans, Mr. and Mrs. Bill
Carnavale, Joanne Agnello, Bonnie Honya, Bob Honya, Lynn
Semenetz, Irene Kuba, Gary Semenetz, Mike Carten, Mark Rathouse,
Mile Alimanos, Ralph Mattone, Jack Pinto, Don Oral, Alan
Kestenbaum, Greg Stephanoff and Alan Krauss.
Three-on-three basketball tournament winners in the 14- to
16-year-old category include Tom Hubanym, Adam Dilluvio and Evan
Lash; in the 12- to 13-year-old group, winners are Cody Stabile,
Brian Durkin and Lenny Saputo; and in the 10- to 11-year-old
division, champs are Scott Stumpf, George Skaliariais and M.
Underweiser.
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| 50 Years of DAC History Tony
De Phillips was a standout basketball and baseball player
at Newtown High School and at Fordham University. He
played minor league baseball for the New York Yankees and
played in the Major Leagues with the Cincinnati Reds.
Tony also officiated college and NBA basketball games and
was a scout for the Philadelphia A's and the New York
Yankees. The Goals Of DAC
What Makes DAC Different?DAC is a non profit organization that is dedicated to providing the children of our neighborhood with quality sports programs. Sports programs are all that we do. We are not here just for the star athletes but for all the athletes and aspiring athletes of our community. Our in-house programs has several advantages over other youth programs in our neighborhood. Every child in our program must play at least 1/2 a game. Guaranteed participations in game situations is important for kids in building up there skill level, confidence, and allowing them to have fun. Our leagues all have drafts that attempt to make each team competitive. This reduces situations where kids do not have fun going to games because they know that games will be blow-outs. All games are played locally, reducing the amount of travel time and allowing us to control the quality of the playing facilities. Games are scheduled on the same days of each week allowing for families to better schedule thier time. We offer travel teams for those kids who are looking for better levels of competition. Each board of director, commissioner, coach and assistantt coach has dedicated himself to improving each players skill, confidence, and knowledge of the game. Who can be a DAC Basketball Player?We are looking for athletes who love basketball. But more importantly, we are looking for student athletes. We are looking for young boys and girls who enjoy competition, dedication, and the values instilled by belonging to a team, and are committed to their educational endeavors. Attitude! We feel that attitude is the most important aspect of an athlete's life. DAC wants athletes with a healthy attitude towards the values we have set forward. Parental support is another area that brings the right athlete together with the right program. Parents will be sacrificing time and money to see their young athletes grow in our program. They also need to support the values we will be teaching. |

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